Boundaries, Mine

Relations,

Hello and greeting's. Tonight, I open my heart a spell to share with you some things about what I am made of. What I'll say is not all encompassing, but I'll bat a few balls out there and give my guests the sense of what I speak.

This is a subject pressing hard from the inside out of me, I suspect it best to communicate some of this matter now to relieve myself of some of this stress, because Folks, sometimes I have learned, it is just absolutely necessary to repeat one's self every once and again when it comes to established boundaries, and I speak of them all, whether the boundary has been established by me or not. There are such things as simple right good common courtesy and respect type of boundaries.

Folks, these are the things that represent me and where I stand in my shoes at this time in my life. Today and well since the late 1980's I learn and have learned what boundaries are made of and what they mean. Too many in my Clan, too many Kinfolk and Kindred know by word spoken and words written of my boundaries. Yet many continue to trespass.

For one more last time I remind, I don't want anymore trespasses, I just don't want anymore.

Please, my Kin, understand this, I love a hug in greeting's and on departing, but other than this, there is no fucking reason to touch me. Ever. No, not anywhere on my body. And I don't give a shit where or why. So please, back up. Effective now there will be verbal situations about this. I am not here to amuse you, I am not your toy, nor am I a damned hound.

Understand this is intended FOR ALL EYES ONLY.

Please, do not lie to me. Just be honest. Your lies are reflected in your eyes.

Please do not betray other's by including me in your childish needless gossip's. I know as a reality, you would betray me just as quick as you have betrayed other's. I know this.

Please, do not betray me and please, not my trust.

Please, do not mock my disabilities. None of them.

Do not refer to me as faggot and or Gay. Yes, I try hard to be a happy and cheerful fellow, I may even on rare occasion throw out a flame or a snap-snap, but please, these are really gang signals you see? But Gay? You ignorant donkey. Oh yeah, I almost forgot, I've been married to my Bride, my sweet love and best good friend for life for three plus decades and I love her more than any one I have ever loved before...

 ...still, I have not been able to figure out and am working on figuring why it is Homophobes enjoy saying the words, Gay and faggot so much. I mean really, they're both so silly sounding. Oh, and by the way, I've learned that it is usually the one's who have a sad doubt about self who strike out with such silly drama queen ass shit. On the other hand, if you are a card holding member, you're free to say what-the-fuck-ever you wish.

Please, treat me the way you wish to be treated. Do not talk down on me. Never.

Please do not put your words in my mouth. Ever.

Understand I will not provide silent shelter to your trespasses anymore.

Please, know and note I will respect your boundaries whether you realize you have them or not.

So, it is written, then let it be done.

I may have more to say, I may not. I ask that for now, Kin please respect them. That's all.